Thursday 19 February 2009

Unexpected things in life


No one knows what is their future. The only thing that can be done is to work out on something today with the hope it will give us better life tomorrow.
In life..nothing is guaranteed other than dying...and it is just a matter of time on how, when and where we die.

Senang je cakap kan but all of us know that life is so much more complicated than how we say and see it. Everything and everyone has their own stories that flowing with their life.

Aku sendiri pun...banyak yang berubah dan banyak perkara yng berlaku pada aku dan hidup aku ni sama jugak macam orang-orang lain tapi aku percaya satu perkara...

Siapa kita pada hari ini ialah bergantung apa yang kita buat semalam...atau apa yang berlaku pada diri kita semalam. So, kalau kita menyesal apa-apa hari ini...kita patut tengok balik apa yang kita buat dan apa yang berlaku sebelum tu. From there, we need to pick all those pieces and how we can use them as a basis of our next action.

I always prefer to look everything that happen from the positive side of it because many people told me and from my readings...anything that happened us is something that we are capable of dealing with and that is why Allah made that happened to us.

Allah knows what He is doing and why He is doing it ...not for me to waste my time to finds answers to that.

When dealing with something unthinkable or unexpected...it' s all about what we can do at our very best...finding the ways and means rather than findings why should or shouldn't that happen to us.

When I was offered a place in a boarding school...I was left clueless but I did my best to fit myself there. Then I managed to climb another level of my life.
When I took engineering, I was not sure if that would be the best for my career later but I just tried to gain as much as possible at campus and that brought me to the area where I am now after graduated from UKM.
When I wanted to get married, I was not sure if I can make my wife totally happy or not but I promised to myself that I would do whatever it takes to be a good husband and that is exactly what I 've been doing until today.
After all all of us could not be perfect but nothing wrong or it is not too ambitious for us to work towards perfection because the bottom line is...
how much we enjoy each part and stage of our life.

I remember watching a talk show on Astro Awani last week when Dato's Salleh Majid , a former chief at BSKL was asked by someone from the floor on who is his role model and why...
He said his role model is suppose to be a role model for everyone and his role model is Nabi Muhammad S.A.W. He added, he knows that it is impossible for him to be at the same level with our Prophet but he can never be wrong by taking Rasulullah S.A.W as a role model. Simply because it has been proven by researches and facts that Rasulullah is the the best leader, strategist, economist and many more...

So, coming back to the point...
many unexcpected things especially the one that very unpleasant/difficult/tough/challenging/disastrous to us will happen all the time...
and the best way to deal with it is by sticking to something which is absolutely right although the outcomes may be not in our favour but at least...we are doing the right things.
Sometime in life, the right thing is not always what we thing is right or perceived to be right!

People can judge but after all..they are entitled for that and so do us! To be safe enough...doing what is Allah told us is right can guarantee us many things which most of them we can't even see and enjoy it "here" now...

Just something popped up in me...
fell better to express it to myself...